Basically I need to spy on my spouse while I'm deployed. We both have iphone 4s (his is 4S, mine is not) with the carrier Softbank. Both are un-jailbroken and I'd like to keep it that way. Our Softbank contract ends Jan 2013, and I'd like the program to work if he switches the phone over to pre-paid. I'd also like to be able to log into a computer to view his incoming/outgoing texts even if deleted, app use, pictures, web use, emails sent/received & to track him by GPS. Pretty much every button he presses, I want to know. The program needs to be undectable. I'm military and working with limited budget, I hope you can help me.